Bangor - Stephen P. Cole, 59, died September 20, 2013 at a Bangor hospital. He was born October 19, 1953 in Washburn the son of Gerald and Eleanor (Porter) Cole. Stephen graduated from Washburn High School Class of 72. He was a partner of the Charles R. Dubay, Company and owner of Pensotti North America. Stephen enjoyed his hobbies of Nascar Racing, and snowmobiling, but he loved spending time with family and friends and especially going to his grand-sons football games and his grand-daughters dance recitals. He was a member of the St. Alderman Commandery No. 17, of Houlton and the Anah Shriners of Bangor. Stephen was on the Board of Directors and a member of the Maine Oil Dealers Association. In addition to his parents he was predeceased by two brothers Milford and Charles Cole. Stephen is survived by his wife of 33 years, Suzanne (LeVasseur) Cole; daughter Heather Cole; two step-sons Monte Billings and his wife Shirley, and Michael Tompkins and his wife Deedee; step daughter Marcia Raymond; grandchildren Tyler, Amy and Micah Raymond, Ashley Nute, Adams Billings, and Quinn and Cole Tompkins; three great grandchildren; many friends from all over the State of Maine. Friends may call from 2-4pm and 6-8pm Tuesday September 24, 2013 at Brookings-Smith 133 Center St., Bangor where relatives and friends are invited to a Masonic Memorial Service at 7:00pm Tuesday conducted by the officers and members of the Rising Virtue Lodge No. 10 of Bangor. Funeral services will be held 11:00am Wednesday September 25, 2013 with the Rev. Garnett Chute, pastor of the Hermon Baptist Church, officiating. The family invites relatives and friends to share conversation and refreshments at the Family Reception Center of Brookings-Smith 163 Center St., Bangor immediately following the service on Wednesday. Condolences to the family may be expressed at www.BrookingsSmith.com